Sunday, 20 October 2013

Lessons You Can Learn From Stray Dogs


There are a lot of cute, harmless stray dogs in every corner of India. All they look for is some compassion & patting but sadly, all they get is a pretty rough life on the streets. Because they're so common, many of us barely stop to give them a second thought, rather a second look. Yes, we know we lead busy lives & we can't lose pace. But if we could just take out few minutes from our rushed life, we could learn the little lessons of life from these adorable & giving canine wonders.


1. Life is more beautiful when you share and care.
Even though they never have enough to go around, they never hesitate to share what little they have with others.

2. Always be on the lookout for opportunities.
These guys aren't survivors for nothing. They grab every single opportunity they see and make the most of what they have.

3. The importance of a nap.
Got a problem you can't quite solve? Take a nap. Dog certified.


4. To enjoy time with your family.
Family time is important, so always try to make some space in your busy schedule for some fun with your loved ones.


5. That it pays to be patient.
Haste makes waste. Sometimes, you just have to bide your time and wait for the right moment.


6. To love unconditionally.
It takes a lot to love someone without expectations or judgment. These guys love for the sake of love.

  
7. And never underestimate yourself.
Never get daunted by any task, obstacle or opponent. Bring it on giant foot!


8. That nothing beats the blues like a good hug.
Go ahead. Hug someone right now. 


9. To always keep your eye on the prize.
Do you really want to achieve something in life? Yes? Then keep your eyes on the prize.


10. To stick up for someone.
Want to learn to be a hero? Learn from them. Like these 3 street dogs who protected a new born baby abandoned on the streets of Kolkatta. 


11. To love your mom.
Be a good puppy and shower your mom with the love she deserves.


12. To improvise like a boss. And have some fun while at it.
Like its said, they have it tough. But that doesn't stop them, does it?


13. To ask for help. And get it.
Sometimes, all you have to do is ask.


14. To be a doting parent.
Love your kids. Because they grow up really fast.


15: Meet your problems head on. Because only then can you solve them faster.


16: And of course, no matter what, always keep smiling.

2. Always be on the lookout for opportunities.


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These guys aren't survivors for nothing. They grab every single opportunity they see and make the most of what they have.

3. The importance of a nap.


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Got a problem you can't quite solve? Take a nap. Dog certified.

4. To enjoy time with your family.


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Family time is important, so always try to make some space in your busy schedule for some fun with your loved ones.

5. That it pays to be patient.


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Haste makes waste. Sometimes, you just have to bide your time and wait for the right moment.

6. To love unconditionally.


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It takes a lot to love someone without expectations or judgment. These guys love for the sake of love.
  

7. And never underestimate yourself.


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Never get daunted by any task, obstacle or opponent. Bring it on giant foot!

8. That nothing beats the blues like a good hug.

Go ahead. Hug someone right now. 

9. To always keep your eye on the prize.


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Do you really want to achieve something in life? Yes? Then keep your eyes on the prize.

10. To stick up for someone.



Want to learn to be a hero? Learn from them. Like these 3 street dogs who protected a new born baby abandoned on the streets of Kolkata. 

11. To love your mom.


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Be a good puppy and shower your mom with the love she deserves.

12. To improvise like a boss. And have some fun while at it.


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Like we said, they have it tough. But that doesn't stop them, does it?

13. To ask for help. And get it.


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Sometimes, all you have to do is ask. Kyonki poochne mein kya jaata hai.

14. To be a doting parent.

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Love your kids. Because they grow up really fast.

15: Meet your problems head on. Because only then can you solve them faster.


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16: And of course, no matter what, always keep smiling.

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Monday, 2 September 2013

The Concept of 'Value'


I come across a lot of people who ask me how they (and their businesses) can survive in an economy that’s hit by recession. I want to share with you what I usually share with them. It has to do with a much abused term. Value. 

Firstly, I believe there are two economies. The Actual Economy and Your Economy. They are both real, yet they are parallel to each other. It means.. one has nothing to do with the other. 

Yes it’s true we’re living in recessionary times. Jobs are scarce, sales are sluggish, inflation is high. I guess a whole lot of other things aren't looking bright either. I’m sure you know. I don’t… because I don’t watch or read the news as much as most others do. Largely because it’s full of negative stuff, that is uninspiring and dis-empowering. A lot of people accept the media because it’s a reflection of reality.

Yet, I believe that you can create your own reality. To do that, the first step is not to look at the world around you, but the world within you. That includes your thoughts, belief systems, habits, patterns.. your conditioning.
Over the last five years, I've been really watching myself. I've also closely watched a whole lot of individuals succeed despite the tough times. I kept asking, ‘What is it about them that makes them succeed? Do I have in me what they have?’
Here's the first thing I've come to learn from people who succeeded right through the recession. They keep creating value regardless of ow much (or little) they make.

Napoleon Hill once said,   
If you do more than what you are paid for, one day you will be paid for more than you do. 
They follow that principle, come what may. They make ‘creating value’ an end in itself. Not a means to an end. They don’t create value SO THAT. They create value. PERIOD. 

Value creation is not really difficult. Especially when it’s a way of life. It’s not necessarily expensive either. When you smile at someone, you create value. When you thank or appreciate someone, you create value. You create value when you show love, compassion, empathy, support. Often you create value by simply showing up. How much does that cost?
A lot of value can be created when you look at what others overlook. When you have an eye for detail. When you do what you’re supposed to do with such care, such commitment that the end product is fabulous. Value is created when you make excellence a habit.

When faced with rising costs and depleting profits, a lot of people and businesses are ‘forced to’ cut back on value. Successful people don’t do that. They know it’s just a phase.
Imagine that your competitors are ‘forced to’ cut back on value, but you choose not to. Who do you think the customers will go to? Who would YOU go to if you were a customer?
Value creation is all about making yourself ‘valuable’. Like your $1000 laptop that’s worth more than $1000 to you. That makes it more valuable. Ask yourself, ‘How much am I worth?’ If you’re getting, say, $1000 a month as salary or as fees from an employer/ client, ask yourself, ‘Am I giving $1000 worth of value or am I giving more than that?’ If you’re giving more, you’re more valuable. If you work out a plan and give what you think is almost $5000 worth of value to that job/ that client (all within the same cost) you would be creating PHENOMENAL value. You think that employer or client would ever leave you??? 

When you give value to people, you magnetize yourself. More people are attracted to you. People start to like you even more. Prospects to whom you have given value start considering you. They ask themselves, ‘This person is not even asking for business from me, yet he/ she is giving me so much value. What if I were to PAY him for that value? I guess he would give me even MORE value. Why wouldn't I want to do business with him? Why wouldn't I want to recommend him to someone else?’ When you give value consistently to people, they begin to trust you. And then magic happens! 

Here’s what I learnt about how successful people take that magic to the next level. They REACH OUT to as many people as they can. They expand their network. They focus on what they can give to their network than what they can get from their network.
They meet more people. Their curiosity about how they can touch large numbers of people drives them. They are visible online in a big way. They harness the power of the internet to reach out to thousands, even millions of people. They touch people’s lives at virtually ZERO communication cost.
Their value goes viral. Their value gets a massive multiplier effect. So does their income!
If you’re a salaried person, ask yourself ‘ How much MORE value can I give to my employer, my clients, my colleagues.’ Instead of asking ‘What can my company do for me?’, ask ‘What can I do for my company?’ Keep adding more value. So much value that it will defy people’s imagination. Keep adding value to people outside your company as well. Especially to people within your industry. 

If you ever ask yourself, ‘I've been giving so much value, to so many people, how come I haven’t got a pay hike or a promotion yet?’, just believe that the operative word here is ‘YET’. That one word changes everything. Believe good things are on your way. Either from your employer or a competitor of your employer. How does it matter who the goodies come from? They both deserve the best. YOU! 

Here’s a small exercise for those of you who have active networks on Facebook or LinkedIn. For a day, AT LEAST for a day, don’t focus on how many likes you get for your posts. Don’t look out for how many endorsements or recommendations you could get. Instead, focus on how many posts of others YOU can ‘like’. Or how many people YOU can endorse. Or how many LinkedIn recommendations you can write for your connections without even being requested for them.

Get your satisfaction from how THEY will feel. We’re human. Everyone wants appreciation and recognition. Even you do. JUST FOR A DAY suspend that need and focus on giving that appreciation and recognition to as many people as you can, online. Do this exercise whole-heartedly and you would have created more value in one day than many others will do in a week! 

This is real simple stuff. But not necessarily easy to practice.. 

After all it comes down to one’s mindset and thought patterns and belief systems and conditioning. It comes down to your decision to suspend your thoughts about the ‘real’ economy and your willingness you create an economy of your own. An economy where your security and success comes from your ability to keep giving value to large numbers of people, not from how much money you made last month or how much you’ll make next month. An economy where you don’t just survive, you thrive. 

An economy that YOU make recession-proof.